Staying Balanced on Deadline

Today I have a special guest post from Jennifer Willis, author, essayist and journalist from Portland, Oregon.  Thanks Jennifer!

Staying Balanced on Deadline

The seemingly simple way to remain balanced and focused as deadlines approach is to plan out every step of your project, allocate adequate time and resources to each piece, stay focused and stay on target.

Yeah, like that’s going to happen.

Things go wrong. Interviewees go on vacation just when you need that juicy quote from them, or your editor asks for a new sidebar for your feature article, requiring significantly more research. The printer runs out of ink (and no ones has the cartridge you need in stock), or just when you’ve given yourself the entire afternoon to do your backgrounding, your internet service cuts out, stranding you in your home office.

Stress is a natural part of a writer’s life, but it doesn’t have to bring you to your knees.

Here are some tips I follow — more or less — to keep me firing on at least most of my cylinders as I juggle multiple project deadlines. And you don’t have to be a writer to give them a try!

Drink Plenty of Water
I have a tendency to dehydrate at the drop of a hat, and it’s even worse when I’m feeling stressed. I do keep a glass of water on my desk — not too close to the computer, in case the cats decide to knock it over — and I also get up regularly to refill it, which gives me a nice break from my computer screen for a few minutes.

Exercise
This wil seem like a no-brainer. Of course physical exercise is a great way to burn off stress! But you really have to find the activity or activities that work best for you. I’ve found that when I try to incorporate a specific routine at regular intervals during the day — e.g., hiking up and down the stairs for five minutes at the top of every hour — this can end up feeling like more work and stress, from a mental standpoint.

I still do my time on the staircase, but I’ve learned to mix this up with some play time with the dogs — a huge stress-reliever! — moving into another room for a few minutes of stretching, going for a walk outside on a nice day, or even taking some time to dance to a favorite song on my ipod.

Do not put off stretching or taking a quick walk until you’re so bleary-eyed from working on the computer that you can’t see, and you’re so exhausted that all you can do is lie down on the couch. Do make yourself take a break every hour or two to at least get up from your desk and move around a little, while incorporating longer breaks for more activity at least once or twice a day.

Embrace What Calms You
Setting up your office as a peaceful and productive workspace is going to be different for different people. When it comes to keeping my space free of clutter and distractions, I’m certainly no role model, but I have learned what elements help to keep me calm and focused, particularly when I’m feeling stressed. I find that having a lit candle nearby helps to keep me alert and honed in on what’s in front of me. I’ll pull up an ambient station on iTunes radio for some relaxing music or birdsongs in the background. Having critters in my office — a cat curled up on top of the printer, and a dog snoozing at my feet — can also be very soothing, but that really depends on what I’m working on; sometimes I need to use that printer, or I need to be able to get up frequently from my desk without the dog being in the way.

Others might find success with aromatherapy, adding green or flowering plants to their workspace, tacking up tranquil or inspiring posters and photographs on the walls, or blasting death metal at full volume until the floor shakes.

Take Time Off
Taking a break — for a couple of hours or even a day or more — may sound counter-intuitive when you’re on a deadline, but I’ve found this to be absolutely essential. If I’m working on a big project 14 hours a day, every day, I’m going to burn out pretty quickly. I had the opportunity to learn this lesson again fairly recently. I became a slave to getting my ebook, “Valhalla,” out the door on a pretty aggressive publication schedule, and I was driving myself into the ground to do it. I got to the point where I couldn’t sit in front of the computer another minute. Even with a major deadline looming, I was so brain-fried that I couldn’t even think straight about how to operate kitchen utensils.

So I took some time off. I spent a day sitting outside in the sun, reading, napping, taking walks. And it was amazing. That one day of just relaxing and taking care of myself was miraculously restorative and when it was time to go back to work, my head was clear and I reveled in renewed enthusiasm. I ended up taking several longer breaks like this one, and you know what? I finished my work ahead of schedule.

Meditation
This is the one activity I really need to be sure to make time for, each and every day. Years ago, I came across some wisdom that went something like this: “If you’re busy, thirty minutes of daily meditation will suffice. If you are very busy, only an hour every day should be necessary.”

Yes, read that again. The more stressed you are and the more harried you feel, the more you need to take a time out.

More than twenty years since I first studied meditation, I’m still trying to find the best “meditation structure” that fits for me — what time of day, how long, what room in the house, relaxing music and candles or none, etc. But what it really comes down to is just sitting down and chilling out. While I don’t suggest remaining at your desk in front of your computer to meditate, you can do this pretty much anywhere — on the couch, on a park bench, waiting for the bus or the train, even standing in line at the post office. And meditation doesn’t require marathon sessions. Being still for a few minutes to quiet the mind and pay attention to your breathing can bring some much-needed bliss to your day.

Remaining calm and keeping stress at bay won’t magically bring that out-of-town interviewee immediately to the phone or result in printer cartridges serendipitously appearing in your supply closet. But maintaining balance goes a long way toward mental, emotional and physical health and can have a huge impact on how you handle the problems and crises that arise during the normal course of any project. Ultimately, your inner poise is also reflected in the work that you turn out, and in how you feel at the end of the day.

These are just a few of the strategies I use to maintain serenity as I face some pretty stiff deadlines. I’ll also turn to yoga, singing songs from childhood, baking and reading a good book when I need a time out, and making sure I’m eating properly and getting enough sleep every night. For even more ideas, I highly recommend checking out Kate Hanley’s “The Anywhere, Anytime Chill Guide” — Kate is the queen of chill!

Jennifer Willis is an author, essayist, and journalist in Portland, Oregon. In her non-fiction work, she specializes in topics related to sustainability, spirituality/religion, history, and health. Her articles have appeared in The Oregonian, The Christian Science Monitor, Salon.com, The Portland Tribune, The Writer, Ancestry Magazine, Aish.com, Skirt!, InterfaithFamily.com, Vegetarian Times, Spirituality & Health, and other print and online publications at home and across the globe.

In fiction, she focuses on urban fantasy and playful mayhem. Her new ebook, “Valhalla” is available at Amazon, Barnes & Noble and Goodreads.

Visit her online at jennifer-willis.com.

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Inspirational Quote of the Week

“Everything you can imagine is real.”  – Pablo Picasso

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The Final Inspection

 
 THE FINAL
INSPECTION

The Soldier stood and faced God,

 Which must always come to pass.

 He hoped his shoes were shining,

 Just as brightly as his brass..
 

‘Step forward now, Soldier ,

 How shall I deal with you?

 Have you always turned the other cheek?

 To My Church have you been true?’

The soldier squared his shoulders and said,

 ‘No, Lord, I guess I ain’t.

 Because those of us who carry guns,

 Can’t always be a saint.
 

I’ve had to work most Sundays,

 And at times my talk was tough.

 And sometimes I’ve been violent,

 Because the world is awfully rough.

 

But, I never took a penny,

That wasn’t mine to keep…

Though I worked a lot of overtime,

 When the bills got just too steep.

 

And I never passed a cry for help,

Though at times I shook with fear..

And sometimes, God, forgive me,

 I’ve wept unmanly tears.

 

I know I don’t deserve a place,

Among the people here.

They never wanted me around,

 Except to calm their fears

 

If you’ve a place for me here, Lord,

It needn’t be so grand.

I never expected or had too much,

 But if you don’t, I’ll understand.

 

There was a silence all around the throne,

Where the saints had often trod.

As the Soldier waited quietly,

 For the judgment of his God.

 

‘Step forward now, you Soldier,

You’ve borne your burdens well.

Walk peacefully on Heaven’s streets,

 You’ve done your time in Hell.’

 

Author Unknown~

 
 

 

 

 

 

It’s the Soldier, not the reporter 
Who has given us the freedom of the press.

 

It’s the Soldier, not the poet, 
Who has given us the freedom of speech.

 

It’s the Soldier, not the politicians 
That ensures our right to Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness..

 

It’s the Soldier who salutes the flag, 
Who serves beneath the flag,
And whose coffin is draped by the flag.

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If you care to offer the smallest token of recognition and appreciation for the Military,
Please pass this on and pray for our men and women
 
Who have served and are currently serving our country
 
And pray for those who have given the ultimate sacrifice for freedom…..

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THESE COLORS DON’T RUN

AMEN!

WE LIVE IN THE LAND OF THE FREE, ONLY BECAUSE OF THE BRAVE!
God Bless Our Military

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Five Tips to Live Healthier Both Physically And Mentally

Physical and mental health are imperative to achieving the life you’ve always wanted. For example, it is more difficult to be in good shape if you are emotionally and mentally defeated. Similarly, attributes such as confidence and self esteem can suffer if you do not take care of your physical health.

To live the life you deserve, you need to focus not only on your physical wellbeing but also on your mental wellbeing.  Good habits can help you achieve the health you deserve.  As they say, practice makes perfect.  The first step is to get started. Start slowly and take your time and soon you’ll find that your small successes will spur you on to achieve larger goals.

Physical fitness is a primary ingredient to a healthier, more balanced you. The following tips will help you increase your energy and endurance:

  •  Have a routine physical with your doctor at least once a year. 
  • Stop smoking.  Even if you’ve tried and failed in the past, keep trying.  
  • Reduce alcohol consumption.
  • Eat more fruits and vegetables and less fat and sugar.
  • Find small ways to increase your physical activity such as parking at the back of the lot at the mall, walking up the stairs instead of taking the elevator or just work a 10 minute walk into your day as often as you can. 

Just taking small steps each day can help you achieve your goals.  Don’t overwhelm yourself by trying to change your routine completely, just make small changes each day and practice them until they become new habits. 

If you need to lose weight, for example, start by taking the stairs instead of the elevator. Do you want to stop smoking? There are support groups to help you, as well as medications to help you overcome the habit. Healthy alternatives are everywhere; you just have to be ready to find them.

You can create the physical body you want, if you’re ready to get started today. Your motivation will increase when you start to see the results from your efforts.

While physical health is very important to achieve the best results, you want to be healthy in mind, too. When the body and mind are healthy and working well together, you feel better. You have more energy and can create more physical and mental strength. 

Like a healthy body, you create a healthy mind through exercise. The more you use your mind, the healthier it will become.  Take a class, learn something new, read something challenging, do puzzles or engage in stimulating conversation with others who share your interests.

This mental stimulation keeps your mind from stagnating. As you learn new things, looking for opportunities to teach others what you have learned. You will retain more and grow in confidence when you share your knowledge with others.

Small steps in the right direction, can lead to incredible success. Experience a higher level of energy and vitality than you ever thought possible, making fitness a priority. Raise your knowledge to keep your mind sharp and increase your self confidence. Physical and mental health are the basis to living your best life!

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Motivational Quote

“Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it.  Boldness has
genius, power, and magic in it.”  - Goethe

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